success – Page 3 – Gayle Tabor

Who are You?

2011/08/05 Gayle 1

Who are you? It is such a difficult question to answer. Am I am parent or a child? Am I a student or a teacher? Am I a friend or a foe? Who am I? Yesterday I attended a funeral service. As I sat in the service I thought about who she was. I thought of all the people in attendance and how she may have touched their lives. Perhaps, the idea of touching each others lives was fresh in my mind because I had the day before read a blog post by Cherry Woodburn ‘Learn About Your Hidden Superpower & Use It For Good’ where she talks about how we influence others in our every day lives. When someone stands before those you have influenced The rest of the story

Mind Reading 101

2011/07/29 Gayle 1

By now in our journey together I hope you are working toward a goal (or two). Chances are, somewhere along the way you have needed to enlist the assistance of another human in reaching your goal; perhaps a family member, or a co-worker, a friend or casual acquaintance. Regardless of who that other person is, you must communicate your needs to them. As much as we wish they were, at time, other people are not mind readers. The ONLY way they know what we need from them, is if we tell them. When we wish to transmit a message and it is not interpreted in the way we wish, it is easy to blame the recipient for not understanding. Consider this … really really think The rest of the story

Are Your Conflicted? (6-steps to conflict resolution)

2011/07/26 Gayle 0

Conflicts can occur in all levels of human interaction; between individuals, in families, workgroups, and in society as a whole. Sometimes even a small conflict can cause great heartache and interfere with your ability to move forward with your goals. There are many reasons why conflicts occur, different goals, values or interests, misunderstanding of situations, unsatisfied needs and depression are a few examples. Living with unsolved conflict takes energy and may cause even more conflict. Carrying the burden of an unresolved conflict can cause even the closest relation to feel divided. To openly accept conflicts takes courage. If a conflict is accepted and solved, the result is better understanding of the thoughts, feelings and needs of the individual, family member workgroup or community, and can The rest of the story

What are you Doing Today to reach your Goal Tomorrow

2011/07/25 Gayle 0

I suffer from PROCRASTINATION, in an all caps kinda way. Unfortunately, the busier I am, the less I seem to be productive. Here are 8 of my favorite suggestions on how you can make your day more productive. Daily goals. Without a clear focus, it’s too easy to succumb to distractions. Set targets for each day in advance. Decide what you’ll do; then do it. Worst first. To defeat procrastination learn to tackle your most unpleasant task first thing in the morning instead of delaying it until later in the day. This small victory will set the tone for a very productive day. Peak times. Identify your peak cycles of productivity, and schedule your most important tasks for those times. Work on minor tasks during The rest of the story

How to Know When You Have Arrived

2010/09/04 Gayle 0

Without a well-defined goal, how will you know you have reached it? This may seem like a obvious statement. However, more often than you would think people make no real plans for success.