You Can’t Choose Others Thoughts but Can Own Yours

Today I am taking a few days off to celebrate my 14^th Anniversary.

I still want to leave you inspired. So head on over to Chris Brogan’s Blog and read about untangling you life from those around you.

As Chris says ‘We can’t choose how our relatives feel about us. We can’t choose how our loved ones think about us and react to us. We can’t alter how those people at work speak about us when we’re not there. None of that is ours.

YOU OWN YOUR HEAD

What you can do, however, is work on yourself, is accept yourself as you are right now, is start to fuel your own personal inner fire of belief without any external sources. It’s not that you don’t value the thoughts of friends and people you love, but instead, that you accept them as simply that: thoughts and input from the outside world. If every time you speak to a group of people, they yawn and look away, accept that maybe you’re boring them, but don’t take it any further than that. Don’t read minds. Just take that information and decide what you want to do about it.’